Fear of failing
There is no such thing as failure, only learning experiences.
Feeling like you failed
Received a bad mark? Something didn’t go as planned?
...It's not the end of the world.
Feel your feelings/deal with your feelings
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Be kind to yourself
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Give yourself time to process
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It is normal to feel disappointed, upset, frustrated or confused (allow these feelings)
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Do what you love and is good for you (hang out with friends, exercise, watch your favourite TV show, listen to music)
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Temporary distraction can be useful when dealing with intense emotions
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Seek emotional support.
STOP and evaluate the situation
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Put it into perspective
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Think about what you believe went wrong.
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Talk to a classmate or friend (share experiences, what has helped, what hasn’t)
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Talk to your lecturer or learning advisor for detailed feedback and tips to improve
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Write ideas, tips, suggestions down.
Create a plan, take action, follow through…Don’t be afraid
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What is upsetting you? Why did you receive this result?
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Reflect on your study habits and attendance
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Think about positive steps and strategies you can do to help improve your learning (duration and quality of preparation time, class attendance, prioritise your tasks)
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Talk to our support staff for advice if needed – we are here for you
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Reframe your view of failure (failure is part of success).
“Failures, repeated failures, are finger posts on the road to achievement. One fails forward toward success.”
C.S. Lewis
Challenges and support
Be prepared for the unexpected. Planning things out doesn’t smooth things out, but it helps you to manage the bumps along the way.
Step 1: Think through some of the possible challenges you may face.
Step 2: What would help you? What would work for this particular challenge?